The judgment act – an act somewhat harmless at first glance, but which can hurt so much.
I decided to approach this subject today because, like most of you, I had often the tendency to judge wrong those around me but to find myself plausible excuses.
Thus, to highlight more specifically the subject of theThe judgment act – the one of our own behavior versus others behavior present article, I decided to introduce you to an anonymous reflection found in one of the books read.
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This is as follows:
When he does not finish his work, I say that he is lazy.
When I do not finish my work, it is because I am too busy.
When he talks about someone, is gossip.
When I do it, it is constructive criticism.
When he insist on his own point of view, he is a stubborn.
When I insist on my own point of view, I am firm.
When he takes some time to do something, he is slowly.
When I take some time to do something, I am meticulous.
When he is gentle, he must have a hidden purpose.
When I am gentle, I am virtuous.
When he is skillful in doing something, he wastes.
When I am skillful in doing something, I am able.
When he does something without being asked, he deals with what not regards him.
When I do something without being asked, I am a person with initiative.
When he defends his rights, he is pretentious.
When I defend my rights, I show I have character.
Therefore, we can see that if we are honest we will discover the similarity between our faults and those which is bothering us so much to the others.
We find that the faults repel each other.
The recognition of this reality generates a better quality of our relations with the others.
The judgment act – the one of our own behavior versus others behavior.
